To Be ONE or TWO

From short film 戀愛起義, directed by 芝see姑Bi


To be ONE or TWO <<< that is the question. Can you change your lifestyle to compromise with your partner? Or do you place yourself & your priorities first? Does he love you more than you love him? Are you in search of someone whom you can willingly give up your liberty? I don't believe in long lasting love. Marriage was made to secure the love between two people because the inventors knew that there is no long lasting love. You need a vow, a spoken AND written commitment to each other. Back then, couples stick with each other whether they like it or not, but now there's divorce. And it's looked upon as liberating for both parties; it's no longer an act of shame. If two people "no longer work together", it's better to part. Thus, times have change and marriage doesn't work like it's supposed to. Love has no guarantee to begin with.

Marriage isn't for me.



最近我做了許多不應該做的事
愛上一個不應該愛的人
等一個不應該等的所謂機會
浪費了不應該浪費的時間
想著不應該想的東西
去了不應該去的地方
吃了不應該吃的東西
回到一個不應該回的家
以及上了一張不應該上的床
然後大家做了許多不應該做的事
之後 大家都覺得不應該繼續下去
不知道自己想怎樣
只知道自己不想怎樣
例如不想讓其它人我和她之間的事
不想大家來來去去不知爲何
不想你找我 我找你
不想不誠實 不坦白 不見得光
不想有秘密 也不想知道彼此的愛有多深
總之高興就行
我不想太認真 但也不想太兒戲
我也不太想知道一些我不應該知道的事
其實我和她應該少見為妙
不應該相愛 不應該傷害 不應該發生
不應該開始 不應該結束
我知道我不應該再找她
但我很想知道她會不會因爲我而不開心
每當我一個人時 我就想...到底我應該想怎樣？
(by Jan Lam in Heroes in Love)